Everything You Need to Dine in Japanese
From entering to paying, Japanese restaurants have a complete set of phrases for each step of the dining experience. This guide covers the full flow so you can dine confidently at any Japanese restaurant — from casual ramen shops to formal kaiseki.
Entering and Getting a Table
- 「よやくを してあります。〜ですが。」— I have a reservation. It’s under ~.
- 「よやくは していません。〜にんですが。」— I don’t have a reservation. We’re ~ people.
- 「まどがわのせきは ありますか。」— Is there a window seat?
- 「きんえんせきを おねがいします。」— Non-smoking please.
Ordering
- 「すみません!」— Excuse me! (to get waiter’s attention)
- 「ちゅうもんを おねがいします。」— I’d like to order.
- 「おすすめは なんですか。」— What do you recommend?
- 「〜を ひとつ おねがいします。」— One ~ please.
- 「〜なしで おねがいします。」— Without ~ please.
- 「〜のアレルギーが あります。」— I have an allergy to ~.
During the Meal
- 「おみずを もらえますか。」— Could I have some water?
- 「おひやを ください。」— Ice water please. (standard restaurant term)
- 「〜を おかわりできますか。」— Can I have a refill of ~?
- 「おいしいです!」— It’s delicious!
Paying
- 「おかいけいを おねがいします。」— The bill please.
- 「べつべつに おねがいします。」— Separately please.
- 「ごいっしょで おねがいします。」— Together please.
- 「カードは つかえますか。」— Can I use a card?
- 「ごちそうさまでした。」— Thank you for the meal (said when leaving).
Fixed Phrases You Must Know
| Japanese | When to use |
|---|---|
| いただきます | Before eating — expressing gratitude for the food |
| ごちそうさまでした | After eating — thanking for the meal |
| いらっしゃいませ | Said by staff when you enter — no need to respond |
| すみません | To call the staff’s attention — NOT ちょっとちょっと (rude) |
Yuka & Rei Dine Out in Japanese
Here is how these phrases sound in a real exchange. Notice how naturally the expressions flow — and how the conversation stays polite even when things get complicated.
Rei, I went to a ramen shop and the staff shouted something at me when I walked in. I couldn’t understand it!


That was probably いらっしゃいませ! — the welcome shout. In lively places like ramen shops and izakayas, the whole staff yells it enthusiastically. You don’t need to reply — just find a seat or wait to be seated.


Then I sat down and a staff member asked me something I didn’t understand. I think it was about ordering?


Probably ごちゅうもんはおきまりですか? — ‘Have you decided on your order?’ If you need more time: すこしまってください — ‘Please wait a moment.’ When you’re ready: すみません! to call them over.


And I wanted to ask if the ramen had pork. I’m avoiding it.


Say: これには、ぶたにくがはいっていますか? — ‘Does this contain pork?’ For any ingredient: 〜がはいっていますか? is the pattern. Staff are very used to dietary questions.
5 Practice Sentences — Read These Aloud
Reading aloud forces your brain to process the phrase as sound, not just text. Do it five times for each sentence.
- ふたりですが、せきはありますか?
There are two of us — do you have a table? - すみません、これをひとつおねがいします。
Excuse me, I’ll have one of these please. (pointing at menu) - からくないですか?
Is it spicy? - おかいけいをおねがいします。
May I have the bill, please? - ごちそうさまでした!とてもおいしかったです。
Thank you for the meal! It was delicious.
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