Japanese Restaurant Phrases: Order, Pay, and Eat with Confidence

Ordering food in Japan doesn’t require perfect Japanese — but knowing the right phrases turns a nerve-wracking experience into a fun one. Whether you’re at a ramen shop, izakaya, sushi counter, or family restaurant, these essential phrases will get you through the meal with confidence.

SituationJapaneseRomajiMeaning
Entering / being seated何名様ですか?Nan-mei-sama desu ka?How many in your party? (staff → you)
Your reply: 2 people二人です。Futari desu.Two people.
Orderingこれをください。Kore wo kudasai.I’ll have this one.
Asking for the menuメニューをください。Menyu wo kudasai.May I have the menu?
Asking for recommendationsおすすめは何ですか?Osusume wa nan desu ka?What do you recommend?
Splitting the bill別々でお願いします。Betsubetsu de onegaishimasu.Separate bills please.
The bill together一緒でお願いします。Issho de onegaishimasu.One bill together.
Calling staffすみません!Sumimasen!Excuse me! (to call waiter)
The checkお会計をお願いします。Okaikei wo onegaishimasu.Check please.
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Before You Sit: Getting a Table

Yuka

お店に入ったら「いらっしゃいませ!」と言われるよ。これは「ようこそ」という意味。「何名様ですか」と聞かれたら人数を答えてね。
(When you enter, they’ll say ‘Irasshaimase!’ — this means ‘Welcome!’ Then they’ll ask how many people: answer with your group size.)

You sayJapaneseRomaji
1 person一人です。Hitori desu.
2 people二人です。Futari desu.
3 people三人です。San-nin desu.
Do you have a reservation?予約しています。山田です。Yoyaku shite imasu. Yamada desu.
No reservation予約はしていません。Yoyaku wa shite imasen.

At the Table: Ordering Food

Yuka

注文するときは「すみません!」で店員さんを呼んでね。指差しながら「これをください」が一番簡単!写真付きメニューならこれだけで大丈夫!
(To order, call the staff with ‘Sumimasen!’ Then pointing at the menu and saying ‘Kore wo kudasai’ (I’ll have this) is the easiest approach — especially with photo menus!)

SituationPhraseRomaji
Point and orderこれをください。Kore wo kudasai.
One of this dishこれをひとつください。Kore wo hitotsu kudasai.
Same as theirsあれと同じものをください。Are to onaji mono wo kudasai.
I’m allergic to…〜アレルギーがあります。〜arerugii ga arimasu.
No meat pleaseお肉なしでお願いします。Oniku nashi de onegaishimasu.
Is this spicy?これは辛いですか?Kore wa karai desu ka?

During the Meal: Key Expressions

Before eating, always say いただきます (itadakimasu) — it’s a polite expression of gratitude for the food. At the end, say ごちそうさまでした (gochisousama deshita) to thank the host or the restaurant.

ExpressionWhen to say itMeaning
いただきますJust before eatingThank you for this food (to food, cook, host)
ごちそうさまでしたAfter finishingThat was a feast / Thank you for the meal
おいしい!While eatingDelicious!
おなかいっぱいですWhen fullI’m full / I’ve had enough
もう少しくださいWant moreA little more please
Rei

「いただきます」を言わずに食べ始めると少し失礼に見えることがあるよ。日本のマナーとして食べる前に必ず言おう!
(Starting to eat without saying itadakimasu can seem a bit rude in Japan. Always say it before eating — it’s standard Japanese table manners!)

Paying the Bill

SituationJapaneseRomaji
Ask for the checkお会計をお願いします。Okaikei wo onegaishimasu.
Separate bills別々でお願いします。Betsubetsu de onegaishimasu.
Together (I’ll pay)一緒でお願いします。Issho de onegaishimasu.
Do you take cards?カードは使えますか?Kaado wa tsukaemasu ka?
Cash only?現金のみですか?Genkin nomi desu ka?
Yuka

日本のレストランでは食後にテーブルで支払うことも多いけど、レジで払う店もある。店員さんに聞くのが一番安全!「どこで払いますか?」と聞いてみよう。
(In Japan some restaurants bring the bill to the table; others have you pay at the register. When in doubt, ask: どこで払いますか? — Where do I pay?)

Dialogue: Full Restaurant Scene

Yuka

すみません!ラーメンをひとつと、餃子をふたつください。
(Excuse me! One ramen and two gyoza, please.)

Rei

カードは使えますか?
(Do you accept cards?)

Quick Quiz

1. How do you call a waiter’s attention?
すみません! — the universal ‘Excuse me’ for getting attention.

2. What do you say before eating?
いただきます — a must-say before every meal in Japan.

3. How do you ask for the check?
お会計をお願いします。


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